There is no Love greater than Love with no object. For then you, yourself, have become Love. Rumi
Love for the other can often become a detour to the arising of what truly is love.
In this outpouring it may often be easier to give than to receive the dynamic flow of love's essence. When you find that it’s easier to keep the spigot flowing know that you have moved into an unnatural and unbalanced dynamic that is not aligned with the nature of Love.
Just notice your breath. Imagine exhaling all the time without taking in a breath. Huh? Just try exhaling, exhaling,exhaling and exhaling . . . you’ll gasp for AIR!! There's no way that you'll be sustained, that's just not how you're designed.
Love is the same. It's a dynamic flow, with no wanting or purpose. It just IS, because flow and movement is its nature.
Nowhere to go, nothing to do. Love is WHO you are.